DC's National Zoo

"Pink is the new Black" 

This past weekend I checked out DC's downtown National Zoo.  The last time I went to the National Zoo I was seven years old, obsessed with all things panda, and ended up leaving with both panda face paint and matching earrings to boot.  This time, unfortunately, I left face paint free but I still had a wonderful trek checking out the lions, tiger, and zoo bears, oh my!  The best thing about the National Zoo is that it is open to the general public at the cost of FREE and is an activity you can share in for an hour or two over several days or for a very full afternoon with family.

Hey good lookin'!

I recently saw a cartoon that showed the proverbial white-haired God mastering the details of his kingdom's creation.  It showed four white bears going through a massive supernatural printer that was quickly running out of ink: the first one out became a black bear in the west, the second one emerged as a brown bear from the south, the third one was a combo of black and white Rorschach blots--panda of the east, and the last poor guy went through God's printer virtually unscathed--a white polar bear residing in the north.  And that, my friends, is why we have different types of bears--the ink cartridge wasn't working and needed a bit of a reboot.  Cartoons make things so simple...  Anyhow, I was thinking about that image as I stared at the Panda ma and her cub, both playing with plastic rocks meant to make the exhibit appear natural.  The cub was no bigger than the size of a Great Dane, and impressed upon me that pandas will continue into our children's futures.  I've heard that at the zoos in Japan, zookeepers working with the animals dress in panda suits when walking amongst them so as to not disturb the breeding cycle of the notoriously elusive panda.  Pretty incredible.

Single and ready to mingle...

The National Zoo now houses a bridge overhang into the elephant sanctuary; a large pool with variously shaded pink, hot pink, light pink, and white flamingos; the altogether fascinating and deeply expressive gorillas and orangutangs; small varietal monkeys and chimps; a family of lions and a few tigers; zebras and exotic birds; and reptiles and small rodents.

On this visit, my favorite encounters involved the flamingos, gorillas, and lions.  The flamingos were having some sort of turf battle amongst themselves and so begin to squawk, flap their wings about, and nuzzle adjacent flamingo partners within their open nabbing beaks.  Within thirty seconds, I saw more flamingo action than I had seen in several previous flamingo visits elsewhere.  The Columbia Zoo in South Carolina (which is not free), for example, has an open view without fences separating the viewer from the flirty flamingos.  I prefer fence-free, but hey, these DC flamingos were willing to give a show for nada, so not too shabby.

Here Kitty, Kitty!

The tiger was hidden amongst his backdrop but the lions, who are usually sleeping when I walk by, were actively playing, faux-fighting, competing for the top dog (er--cat) position, and generally relaying quite the National Geographic-worthy performance.  There were ten in total visible, all female except for two male juveniles who were yet to grow into giant, Mufasa-style manes. (All the kids around us were quoting lines from The Lion King.)

Zen and the Art of Meditation

It turns out all the action from the lions was due to dinner time, aka raw meat city.  So if you want to check out the lions while their active, come to their place just after 4.  By 4:30, most of the lions are back inside.

The gorillas, well, I am so impressed with the way their eyes and body language connotes compassion, general curiosity, and a sense of humor.  Some gorillas like to play with their food (again and again) and this seems to fascinate the little ones, who scream in delight at the chewed up specimens.  Other gorillas will use epic comic timing to spray water towards its captive audience.  A man to my left, in the viewing room, sat directly at the eye-level of one magnificent gorilla and just sat there while eating an apple.  I noticed the gorillas would follow my own eye movements, perhaps both bewildered and intrigued by the hairless, photo-flashing homo sapiens across the thin layer of glass.

What are YOU lookin' at, huh?!

Looking into the eyes of an old friend.

I am reminded of Frans de Waal's work, The Ape and the Sushi Master, which addresses the (seeming oxymoron) of the anthropological and cultural nature of animal relationships and intelligence.  De Waal talks about how pigeons with a little food encouragement could quickly decipher not only between Picasso and Matisse paintings, but on period-specific artist styles.  Impressive.  Plus, a number of animals (including crows) create tools or manipulate their environments so that they can have better access to food, the ladies/gents of their species, or a comfortable living space.  It was helpful to read about how the preconceptions of the researchers affected what and how they conveyed the cultural relations of animals--basically how our own worldviews shape how we perceive the worldviews and mind frames of others.  Those Bonobo in the DRC really have struck many academics for a loop.  Same with the dolphins and their unerring draw towards non-productive pleasure behavior, er-hum.  I think we often give animals too little credit: elephants mourn, beavers build, birds sing, whales relay messages, and the mating habits of most reflect tact, courage, and long-held (embedded or learned) traditions.  I find animal culture fascinating, and I think that the animals watch us just as much or more than we watch them.     

I've heard that checking out the National Zoo's animals when the weather is cooler means they are more likely to be active.  (Hot = Siesta time).  So maybe it's worth it to put on a hat and sweater.  Plus, from late November through December, a light show with giant fluorescent-bulb pandas, elephants, zebras and the like will greet you in the dark of winter.  Pretty sweet deal for a day or evening, and then if you are up for a bite afterwards, Adams Morgan (at the metro stop) is just a few blocks away.

Buying for My Future Self, Or, What do I Really Need in order to be Happy?

Time is a beautiful thing to waste so gingerly...

I have been told the four seasons of Mumbai are Temperate, Hot, Hotter, and Monsoon.  While most four-season people cringe at the idea of hot and hotter, I embrace it wholeheartedly.  I enjoy the heat, to a point.  Past 100 Fahrenheit and I'm a bit more indoor-focused, but give me a mid-80s day and I am a happy camper, particularly if the smell of salt water is near.

For now, in the coming cold of winter, I am enjoying each sweater and jacket that I wear, knowing they will soon be past their efficient use and nestled away in dusty storage.  It's a bid odd to think about what needs to be packed, and what needs to be forgotten, for the next two years.  Monsoon season?  Well then you'll certainly need galoshes.  High-held sun?  Well then you'll certainly need sunscreen.  I am trying to buy, organize, and track down all of the toiletries, scattered items, foodstuffs, and accoutrements that might strike my fancy (or scream of necessity) during the next twenty-four months...  Toilet paper, shoes, detergent, shampoo, clothing, pet meds, paperwork, shots, visas, tennis balls, stationary, Pepto, and more!

The list expands and stands,
like dead weight,
cycling on repeat in my head
about what I can't forget.

Which gets me wondering...  
Creature comforts can carry me so far, and coffee in the morning gets my blood pumping but...

What types of things can't I live without?  What can I let be a thing of the past?

Shadows are the dreams we have left behind,
dormant whispers of the past in hiding,
the present awaiting, and the future wishes
left on hold...

The question of the day for readers and myself alike is:
                                                                                        What do we really need in order to be happy?

(Or, what do I project as a wanted good which is really a replacement for lack or limitation of sustained interior nourishment?)

A Goal for 2012

For example, who knew that the Snuggie, Chia Pets, and the Shake Weight wouldn't be in fashion (ever again!) at the turn of 2012?!  And who would have thought the world could live without the  electrically-run twisting spaghetti fork?  I must consider the unthinkable: will I ever survive without large chain store conglomerates?  Will I thrive in a land without fountains of icy cool Diet Coke?

Life is tough, surely, without American novelties.  The good news about myself, I have learned, is that I can quickly adapt to life without running water, large product selection, and housewares when I am living and doing interesting things with likable people.  The prep work of travel, however, always gets me dreaming about what I will inevitably forget and has me worrying about how I could ever survive without what I've (in imagination) forgotten!  In reality, on ground level, the things I fretted about in planning never amount to much of anything.  That is why this year, as a resolution, I am going to take life in stride and embrace whatever scenario is before me... letting go of the control so often expected in well-established daily living. 

                                      So I say this dear friends, with verve: Game on world, game on!

Outside Seattle: The Olympic Peninsula & Bainbridge Island

Coffee and Fall Leaves = Perfection

A last adieu to fall now that winter has set in...

A few last flowers in bloom on Whidbey Island

In Washington's fall on the Olympic Peninsula, the leaves are spectacular, with colors ranging from fluorescent yellows and rustic oranges to deep hues of burnt red, bright fire, and ombre.  Checking out the fall leaves, which turn colors from early to mid-October, and mostly fall by early November, is worth the trek alone.  Looking around I felt like a child, constantly impressing listeners with "oohs" and "ahs" and "wows" as we passed by groves of season-changing trees.  "Look at that yellow!  Look at that red!  Look at the leaves fall from the sky to their bed!"  When all the leaves fall, it makes me a bit sad: like when the girls dress up for prom, and at the end of the ball, you wipe off your make-up and put on those comfy sweats you've worn the last three nights to bed.  I get that winter must come, but the leaves--they deserve a longer showing for all of their chlorophyll wonder.  Just saying.  At least, in compensation, I can hear their crispy cackle under my feet once they've nestled comfortably into the unswept sidewalk.

View from the State park on the outskirts of Port Townsend

Fountain statue in Port Townsend square

Port Townsend is another Olympic Peninsula town I am highly fond of.  What I like about Port Townsend is its off-beat, idiosyncratic charm and the wide variety of stores.  From Indigenous masks, cloths, paintings, and sculptures to a New Age bookstore, used books, a Writer's Workshop, thrift stores and jewelry, art, and garden supplies, the town has a sense of identity that is tangibly perceived and valued by its residents: it is funky, groovy, alive, and amusing.  People are talkative, have a sense of humor, and are good storytellers.  At least an afternoon can be used to rummage through shops and special finds that often feel genuinely local.  If you are looking for some sort of Northwestern sweater, handcrafted jewelry, or Native American art, Port Townsend is a great place to stop and check out for a while.  We went to a tasty Thai house restaurant on a side street off the main road and it was like stepping into a 1950s movie set.  I tried the black rice and mung bean with coconut milk for dessert (served hot)--it has quickly become a craving I now seek for in the Falls Church's South Vietnamese Eden Center outside of DC.  The book stores in the town are also great if you are a reader and are looking for inspiration in finding something new to peruse.

Beach kelp can be 10 feet long!

Sea Grass

Kelp salad, anyone?  (I heard they are *full* of antioxidants!)

 

This boat has seen better days....

Port Townsend area state park

Port Townsend is known for several key areas to visit outside of its downtown shops. There are two beaches in the area, one that has amazing hiking trails on a clifftop and the other which is a part of a (pay-per-use) state park.  I must note that in early November, while the views were spectacular, the wind seizing the waves into frenetic splendor was cold, cold, COLD.  I don't mean chilly.  I mean freezing.  Bring a warm hat, gloves, and heavy jacket for this time of year.  Nevertheless, there were a million seagulls flying about, gobs of gems and rocks, giant seaweed, and washed up timber that made the beach a visual draw.  Beyond the State Park beach, there are a number of former military buildings (now a museum) that were used on movie sets such as Richard Gere's now classic, An Officer and a Gentlemen.



If you want to move from the movie set to a real-life fiction, go to Gig Harbor in the summer, where they hold a yearly Renaissance Faire with live trolls under a bridge, swordsmen and Guinevere(s), and enormous turkey legs that make you feel like you're in (a modern-day adaptation of life in) the Middle Ages.  Huzzah!   

Good to know...

Port Townsend also has a ferry to Whidbey Island, which is fun for an afternoon about in the small town of Langley.  Langley has a chocolatier that innovates cocoa creations involving spices, salted caramels, and truffle little bites of heaven (if you are one for the sweet tooth).  The small cinema downtown and the adjoining waterside restaurants make for a good dinner-date combo.  Several shops sell higher end tourist and gift goods.  The Fish Bowl restaurant, which was Ah-mazing, went out of business a few years ago (boo economy): the five-course meal and pairing was art on a plate (i.e. clam shell on a bed of sea salt with seared scallops and braised lemon).  It was there I tried my first (and only) gooey duck (aka geoduck), which is an odd-looking sea creature specific to the Pacific Northwest.  Seriously, the thing is creepy looking, check it out on the interweb people!  

Funky art is scattered about town

Bainbridge Island, and specifically the city of Bainbridge, is fun for an afternoon of shopping and walking about.  The harbor there is beautiful and there are modern statues by local artists dispersed along the waterside pathway.  If you are into yarn (which is not my thing particularly, but is otherwise a family-inherited trait of obsession/love/adoration), check out their yarn shop displays and purty skeins.  I went to Nola, a European-style cafe for brunch, with four others and everyone was pleasantly satisfied with their mid-morning selections.  The style of houses in Bainbridge varies from the other Port cities (Pt. Townsend, Pt. Gamble, Pt. Ludlow) in that much of the homes have sleek, modern styles, clean lines, and a more polished feel.  Bainbridge also feels more city-like because of its view of Seattle's night life across the water.  Port Townsend, conversely, is more quirky and casual and Port Ludlow's homes in the hills have a defined rustic elegance. 

Bainbridge Harbor Views

Heave-ho!

               This was a good chat people, good chat.  Thanks for reading--we'll catch up soon!

A Time of New Beginnings.

As a sun-centered girl (read: not winter bunny), I am appreciative of the fact that the DC weather will only be with me a short six (6) weeks: by the end of February I will have arrived and settled in India and began a new chapter.  Entering this year I am thankful that these next 12 months will be a challenging adventure full of new peoples, cultures, expectations, and experiences.  I am also grateful that in America the New Year is a time culturally designated as a moment for reflection, transitions, time with family, and new beginnings.  It is from this place that I join the New Year mightily!

Winter is the time for hot cocoa, warm
fires, blankets, and brisk walks.
When the leaves fall and the trees are left with their weathered skeletons exposed to the sobering world, it is a reminder that life is full of cycles: rejuvenation, culling, rest, and rebirth.  I suppose the New Year reminds us of our past wrongs and rights, even as we spring forward to reflect what we'd like to change and see differently over the coming months.  We are not meant to transform the very core of our being, but rather, ignite within ourselves those things, visions, plans, and practices which emote and reflect our very best selves.

Self-searching, like trying to shop for your future (abroad) self, requires you to sort through layers and layers of stuff before you can learn what you really need and can discover what you don't actually want.  

It need not matter if it is the deal of a lifetime if the shiny package before you holds little substance.  Fortunately, when you've done the interior work, found what you're looking for, and grooved into the form of your dazzling new self, like diamonds, and chocolate wishes, the results are deliciously sweet!

May your 2012 be filled with joy, howls of laughter, soul-satisfaction, happiness, good health, and while you're at it, throw in some fabulosity and razzle dazzle because by Jove, we're worth it!

                  That's  right, I said razzle dazzle... this year I'm planning to put my dancin' shoes on!

Washington's Olympic Peninsula: Poulsbo, Port Ludlow & Port Gamble

Fall leaves in full bloom!

 On my recent trip to the Seattle area, I spent
several weeks on the Olympic Peninsula.  Just an hour or two outside of the city, depending on traffic, the feel of the Olympic Peninsula is like landing on another planet.Lush, green rain forests, bountiful trees, panoramic mountains, water views, and small, quaint towns give off the feel of a rural oasis set amongst nature.

 This is what you will see to your left when driving over the bridge from Port Townsend to Port Ludlow

Some of the views are literally breathtaking: going over the bridge from Poulsbo to Port Ludlow to my left was a flitting sun kissing the water, and to my right a breached seal who (no lie) winked at me.  Though I did not see a whale, otters are more common fodder, and are known for not only looking adorable but also for using their sticky fingers to grab tasty morsels from the local trash bin.  Deers, including 10-point bucks, are plentiful--though from locals I have learned that this unfortunately affects all things flowers, which
quickly become gobbled-down deer treats.

My mom told me that a few months back on her landing she awoke to the sound of snoring, only to find when she turned on the porch light that a cougar (real full size mountain lion cougar!!!!) was taking a catnap in front of her petunias.  Bears, apparently, occasionally interact with human inhabitants on the outskirts of golf courses and nature trails.  I heard about a woman walking her little pooch, only to find herself in the unfortunate position of fighting off an eagle reaching for the leash.  (Sadly, the eagle won).  This is wilderness, people.  Walking around just outside of the small towns it feels like virgin territory--untouched, pristine land with clean waterways and active wildlife.

Port Ludlow's lil' harbor

In the small town of Port Ludlow ('a village in the forest by the bay') there is Teal Lake, a hike to the waterfalls, nature trails, golfing, and yachting.  While the village center is a quick drive-by (the movie rental store is a part of the gas station), there are beautiful homes nestled away that have spectacular views of Whidbey Island, passing cruise ships, watercraft airplanes, and every now and again a Native American paddling canoe group.  Nature literally is your neighbor and, except for the occasional sleeping kitty kat on your porch, the clean air and fresh smells of fir trees makes you feel like you are miles away from city life while still remaining in the lap of luxury (read: heated home).  Local adventurers are known for crabbing, hiking, hunting, fishing, and searching out coveted mushrooms--though their secret locations I cannot tell!  Port Ludlow is a great place to retire if you are looking for a community group of educated and interesting world travelers and enthusiasts.

Norwegian charm emanates from this great little town.

Poulsbo is a charming Norwegian town in Kitsap County, founded in 1885.  The town of Poulsbo has a boardwalk adjacent to the water at Liberty Bay that is stroll-worthy and lovely on a cool, windless day.  The boardwalk has a magnificent 360 view of mountains and boats as well as the occasional brood of ducks that are quite the entertainers!  At least three local chain coffee stores exist and Italian, Thai, American, and Norwegian restaurants are available.  The bakery in Poulsbo has breads, pastries, cookies, and sweets that are all scratch-made on the premises and are delicioso in the belly (though probably not on the thighs).  Over the years I have tried the cinnamon-orange bread, adorable ginger men, apple turnovers and bear crullers and have yet to be disappointed.  The treats there are sweet but not too sugary, a perfect delight.  Central Market is located in Poulsbo and it is arguably the BEST market selection I have ever seen, anywhere.  They have fresh-made high-grade sushi, hand-made hot out of the oven tortillas, a large buffet and to-go prepared food section, vegetable and fruit varietals from around the world, global spices, and all the nature-fruit-nut-herb things you'd typically find in a Whole Foods store.  I hate to say it, but I plan my vacation days to Poulsbo around my Central Market excursion: it is that awesome.  Poulsbo downtown also has a few funky art co-ops, dress stores, furniture and garden shops, and stores great for buying affordable gifts.  There is even a small Norwegian grocer that sells all things Scandinavian including specialty cheeses, chocolates, meats, and mints.  If you are interested in a day trip in the Olympic Peninsula, Poulsbo is definitely worth the trek.

Port Gamble is a small, up-and-coming village/town with only a handful of residents but a number of small shops and a few restaurants.  The theme of the town focuses on its timber mill history and the few Victorian houses and church are nice to walk by when traveling on the Port Gamble square.  Around Halloween, the town was hosting a "Ghost Hunting Conference" so many of the visitors were looking for their invisible counterparts in the supposedly haunted Victorian house (now for rent) with the front facing the port waters.  The General Store across from the Post Office serves food and sells kitschy trinkets.  The kayak business formerly in Poulsbo moved to Port Gamble, so if you are up for getting really sore hands and potentially falling into icy waters, here's where you can do it.  I would prefer to kayak in the area's warmest months, mid-July to early-August.  About nine months of the year a light to heavy sweater is required, but when it is not raining it is comfortable and enjoyable to walk the dogs on the footpaths and greet friendly locals.

You can get to the Olympic Peninsula from Seattle by taking the Kingston-Edmunds ferry.  The drive to Port Gamble, Poulsbo, Port Townsend, and Port Ludlow from there is between twenty and forty minutes.  In Kingston, nota bene, is an amazing little crepe and galette (savory crepe) shop that is cheap, informal, mere feet from the ferry, and absolutely fabulous (AbFab, dahling!).  I had a craving and went back specifically for the galette with poached egg, spinach, roasted almonds, honey dijon, grilled mushrooms and onions with a frothy cappuccino to boot.  Mmmm....  Note: if going all out on the galette, bring a breath mint: le garlique (ail) est plus forte! 

Port Townsend, Bainbridge, and Whidbey Island write-ups coming soon!

Seattle and Traveler Tips

Totem poles created by First Nation communities reflect Seattle's heritage.

 I recently returned from a three-week trip to the Seattle, Washington area.  Seattle is a beautiful, magical city when you can catch her on a sunny day without a cloud in the sky.  Similar to her sister city of Portland (notoriously dubbed 'City of the Weird'), Seattle's quirky character gives her a certain charm.  Seattle, I suppose, could be called 'City of the Liberal Salmon,' 'Land of Starbucks and Mountains,' or, in a fit of California envy, 'Rain, rain, go away.'  But really, Seattle is a great city.  I love all of the small antique and art shops downtown interspersed with a cornucopia of coffee houses, cheese shops, specialty food marts and bike
shops, yarn havens, and seafood-centered restaurants.

Pike Place is a typical tourist trap, though well worth the while for the giant ten-dollar bouquets of flowers and gift-style foodstuffs.  When my husband and I go, he always gets the Chinese-Vietnamese pork rolls (pronounced Hum-Bow or Banh-Bao) that reflect the French influence and obsession with bread and South Vietnam's love for pork.  There are also a few scattered comic, used book, and photo shops that have surprising finds tucked away, if you take the time to look.

View of the Harbor from Bainbridge Island

I talk with market and shop vendors to get their take on the lay of the land.  On one of my first Seattle trips I was planning to go on the underground tour of the city reflecting its early tumultuous history as a frontier town.  Tunnels, underground hideaways and passages are all around the city.  After talking with an African mask dealer about dream states (of all things), we were shown the underground passages directly parallel to his basement-stationed shop.  Very cool, indeed.  (And no, we didn't find anything spooky or old in there, but I did find the remnants of chicken wings consumed and partially petrified...woohahhaha!)  But it was a fun experience and I wouldn't have had it were I to have not struck up an interesting conversation with a perfect stranger.

Let your wings be your compass!

That is what I love about traveling... you never know who you are going to meet or what you'll come by once you jump off the designated tour circle.  And mostly, I've found over the years that people are generally nice.  (I know--surprising right?)  It's amazing what you can learn when you are willing to listen and sit and ask a few questions.  People LIKE to exchange ideas and thoughts.  And people for the most part ENJOY telling you what they have gleaned from years of daily habits and experience residing, working, and eating in a place.  It makes them feel helpful, important, needed.  And it's a great way to strike up new relationships.  Take note, dear friends, take note.  The best tour guides are often those rare individuals who genuinely desire for your experience to be a great one even if they won't remember your name or get anything out of it other than knowing they've been kind to another human being.  Finding people like that who are willing to share their knowledge is TRAVELER's GOLD.

More coming soon on THE OLYMPIC PENINSULA.  Ciao for now!  

  

Things to Consider When Moving Abroad: Part 3

Things to Consider When Moving Abroad Continued: Culture and the Daily Grind

6. The Cultural Milieu: Food, Festivities & Activities
Ask yourself earnestly, "What do I consider FUN?"  Not everyone defines enjoyment similarly.  Sitting at the beach knitting all day while knocking back appletinis may be the bee's knees for one and the definition of hell for another.  If given the opportunity to really do what you want within a foreign country, what would you actually want to do with your time, money and resources?  Compare your daily routine (traffic, congestion, shopping, cooking) with the adventures and excursions you idyllically imagine your upcoming life will entail.  When it comes down to the daily grind, what are you willing to tolerate and what can you admit honestly would be too tough or too intolerable to personally handle?  The travel will be amazing, yes, but really focus on the daily routine realities to determine if the country of choice would be up to snuff for your plans and preferences.  A country may have fabulous, lush pictures of flora and fauna, but if you will be residing in an urban jungle (read: lots of concrete), imagine what city hustle and bustle on a daily basis will be like on your commute, walking the dogs, grabbing groceries, jogging, etc.

Cultures have subtle cues for interrelations.  Find out what is expected of males and females, young and old, marrieds and singles.  Learn about typical community activities: are you a dominoes aficionado or a karaoke queen?  A film fanatic or sports enthusiast?  Know which country activities match your own interests.  If bowling is the national activity and you wouldn't be caught dead in polyester and bowling shoes, think about alternative options for entertainment.  Some communities use religious or social organizations as primary vehicles for community relationships.  Others rely on a tight-knit family network of support (which may be hard to break into if you are not a local).  Learn whether or not the community is comfortable, familiar, or inviting of foreign guests: will you be a welcome addition or perceived as a communal burden?

Read some ex-pat country specific blogs to find out how easy (or difficult) it is to make lasting friendships.  Find out what type of night life abounds: is drinking in public acceptable or highly frowned upon?  In the community is dancing impermissible (read: punishable) or virtually required when more than three are gathered?  What time do most businesses, shops, and restaurants open and close?  Is dinner time the 4 o'clock early bird special or will restaurants not open their doors until after 8:30?  On Sunday or weekends do businesses close shop, or will it be near impossible to find some peace and quiet with 24-7 city life?  During holidays and events like Ramadan (Muslim month of fasting) does the city shut down or will market shopping be open for business?

Other questions to ask include: What are the local and national songs, dances, stories, and proverbs that children learn from an early age at bedtime?  What are the foods that are ripe and abundant, and which foods (if any) are considered taboo?  What gifts are expected when you show up at someone's house?  Do you have to arrange the cost of taxi fare before getting in the car?  Will haggling be a part of your daily shopping experience?

Learn whether or not it is okay to: use your left hand (most Muslim and African countries consider the left hand unclean); address people informally; look at a person in the eye when speaking; talk with the opposite sex; travel without accompaniment.  Find out what the expected 'personal bubble' of space is for the community: some places have personal bubbles measured in feet while others have mere inches (if you're lucky!).  (Imagine yourself sweatily sitting on public transportation with a breast-feeding baby--not your own--sitting on your left thigh and a goat perched beneath your ankle on your right...)  Know whether personal lodgings will be limited to a few hundred feet or an entire hacienda.  Even if the city or town is the best in the world, if you are living in a shoebox you might begin to feel (er-hum) a touch claustrophobic.  


Whether you are working, retired, child-rearing, or just absorbing the local community flavor, what type of activities could you see yourself (and your accompaniments) engaging in?  If the country has safety issues, how will this affect your freedom of movement and engagement with the local populace?  If women's rights or freedom of speech is different than US standards, how will this affect your relationships, travels to the market, and social expectations generally?  Will you have to change your style of dress or speech to fit in, and if so, are you willing to adapt accordingly?  In your country of choice, will you be able to eat at the locally available restaurants?  Are you only willing to eat at high-end restaurants, or do you hope to tap into street food vendors, local markets, and cheaper dive pit stops?  Even if a country is comparatively affordable to US standards, if you are planning to live the high life, assume it will come at a cost and prepare your budgeting accordingly.


7. The Daily Grind
The tourism photos online will most likely not reflect what is happening on the ground day-in, day-out.  Check out statistics on crime, poverty, residing persons per capita, and cost of basic foodstuffs.  Look up local holidays, celebrations, religious practices, and community preferences for music, national dishes, and movies.  Check out recent news articles on reputable sites and see if elections or other potentially chaotic events are occurring anytime soon.  Check up on local laws.  Some countries have reciprocity agreements for working if you are a foreign national.  Other countries, unfortunately, make it almost impossible to secure a job on the local market that can support your new life.  If the perfect place with the perfect house and the perfect market and the perfect view are perfectly out of jobs for people like you, then maybe it's not so perfect after all.

Take into consideration the difference in lifestyle between being a tourist and being a resident.  When you are living in a place, what do you really need (items, relationships, activities, and otherwise) to make you feel comfortable, at home, and loved?   

Once you've picked a city, neighborhood or particular residence, see how far away the local market will be.  If you will be walking from place to place, check out the streets you will have to go by on a daily basis to pick up milk, bread, meat, and the like.  Can you see yourself there?  Would you be happy?  If the answer is yes, my friend, then I think you will do just fine.

The world awaits!